I will help you get through the breakup
Without having to “go to war”
You will make a decision faster, cheaper and without engaging in conflict.
Are you facing a breakup or already in the middle of a divorce and afraid you won’t be able to handle the future?
Every attempt to talk to your partner about the difficulties in your relationship ends in an argument, silence or an attempt to intimidate?
Worried about how the breakup will affect your children – and not sure how to talk to them about it?
Or maybe you feel it’s over, but you’re still afraid to leave – for fear of his reaction or what others will think?
You don’t have to go through all this alone – I understand how you feel and I know how to help people like you face the challenges of divorce. As a lawyer, as a divorced person, as a parent and finally as a divorce coach.
As a Certified Divorce Coach, but most of all – as a woman who knows it inside out – I don’t teach you from books.
I speak from a place where I once stood alone.
I know the loneliness in a relationship, where everything had to be borne alone – emotions, a child, everyday life.
I know the conversations that ended in silences heavier than screaming.
I know the feeling when you are afraid to leave, but even more afraid to stay.
I know the shame that cannot be explained to anyone looking in from the outside.
I also know the mechanism of postponing the decision until “after the vacations”, “after the child’s birthday”, “after Christmas” – because, after all, maybe it will still change, maybe I can stand it after all.
But there comes a point when you no longer want to live in survival mode.
When instead of fighting for someone – you start fighting for yourself.
This moment I know very well. And if you report to me – I will help you get through it.
Today my life looks different.Not because someone gave me a ready-made solution.
But because I built them myself. Step by step.
After the divorce. After the silence. After the chaos. After everything.
I’m also a mom – just as much then as I am today.
But the difference is that today my motherhood is calm, attentive, real. I no longer explain other people’s moods to my child. I don’t teach how to tiptoe around the house. Today my child is learning that love can be warm, healthy and safe.
That’s why – as a Certified Divorce Coach® – I don’t judge.
I won’t tell you that “you can do it”. Because you already know that.
You just need someone to walk that part of the journey beside you.
I help women in situations like the one I was in myself:
- When you are afraid that divorce will destroy your child – and actually save him from what is destroying him today
- When you don’t know how to pull yourself together – and you think you’ll never be yourself again,
- When no one understands why you haven’t left yet or why you’ve already left,
- When you don’t want help “from above” – only from someone who really understands, not just knows.
What is divorce coaching – and why it may be right for you
Divorce coaching is a process of emotional, mental and practical support focused on you – when you actually need clarity and someone by your side to get through the breakup of a relationship.
You are not alone, and I do not judge. I support you step by step – emotionally, strategically and in your daily choices – without legal advice, without therapy, but as a calm and concrete person who understands what you are experiencing.
It’s a process in which I am by your side as an outsider – calm, sober, independent of your situation, but completely on your side
Step by step I help you:
- Understand what is happening to you emotionally – untangle the chaos of thoughts, guilt, anger, fear or helplessness. Don’t suppress them, but
use them for action. - Build a safe, inner space where you can name your needs without fear that someone will disregard or ridicule them.
- Prepare you for conversations with your partner, which are often fraught with tension. You learn how to speak firmly without getting into conflicts. What to say, what not to say. How to stay calm, even when he or she is trying to get you off balance.
- Build a plan for the coming weeks or months – step by step. What to say to the child? How to take care of yourself? How to spread out the care? How to survive the first lonely weekends? What about work, housing, money?
- Stop being afraid of the reactions of those around you. Together we will find the words you can say to your family, friends, children – without explaining the life you have decided to reclaim.
- Begin to set boundaries, including when, until now, he has always had the last word.
- Find your strength. Even if you don’t feel it now – it is there. I know that place. And I know how to lead you out of it.
I am not a therapist. I am a woman who has gone through her own difficult breakup. And I am a professional who knows how to turn such a breakup into a fresh start – step by step, with a plan, clarity and courage.
How can I help you?
See how I can help you
Personal session
Let’s meet face to face in a safe space where we will fully focus on your goals and capabilities.
Telephone session
With a phone call, you will receive support and motivation no matter where you are.
Online session
An online session is a convenient way to meet, allowing you to work on your development from anywhere in the world.
Practical tips
for each stage of separation
and reconstruction
Sometimes one sentence can change
the way you think. In the Advice section you will find
Practical tips on divorce,
relationships and emotions
“Remember, the pain of separation is temporary, but the freedom and joy that comes with moving on is eternal.”
– Author unknown
Divorce process
What is the difference between amicable divorce and
conflictual? I will guide you through the stages – from the decision to the paperwork.
How to prepare for divorce
Practical tips – emotional, legal and organizational. The better prepared you are, the less pain and chaos.
What’s next after the divorce?
About how to put together a new reality after the divorce formalities are done.
FAQ – this is what our customers ask about most often
Is divorce coaching by any chance the same as therapy?
DON’T. Divorce coaching does not reach into the past. In our work, we focus on trying to arrange reality for now and the future.
Is a divorce coach someone who will give advice and lecture me?
NOT. In an emotionally difficult time, many people are fed up with advice and expect someone to finally listen to them without trying to take control of their lives.
A coach does not give ready-made answers – he helps you find your own
Does the divorce coach persuade or convince others to divorce?
him or her?
Absolutely NO. The divorce coach together with the client seeks the right solution to the difficult situation for him. It is not uncommon for this solution to be to stay in the relationship with a slight modification of the rules there.
